Can Richard Branson help you become a better, more powerful listener?

Can Richard Branson help you become a more powerful listener?Can Richard Branson help you become a more powerful listener?

What’s the best way to connect on a deeper level? How can you create a connection that’s built on trust faster? Why is listening becoming a lost art? What can Richard Branson teach us about becoming better listeners?

I spent significant time trying to find someone who would make listening fun again for you. I was given a book earlier this year where Richard Branson shares several great ideas on how to revive the art of great listening

I’ve been told by several people who know Richard Branson well that he is a great entertainer and entrepreneur, but what really struck them was how they felt heard when talking to him. What would people say about your listening skills?

It’s interesting that in his bestselling book, The Virgin Way, he shares a whole chapter on the dying art of listening. He also shares an interesting fact; if you want to be a great leader, it’s more important to be a great listener than a great speaker.

There were three ideas I got from his chapter on listening. 

The first point Richard Branson makes is listening is not hearing. If you want to listen well, you must learn to focus on the person speaking.  He recommends taking notes. Because of his dyslexia, he learned to be a great note taker. Nothing tells a person you are listening to them more than taking notes and capturing the important things being said. These handwritten notes can serve you for a lifetime.

The second point Richard Branson makes is that the smartest, wisest person in the room isn’t always the one who talks the most.  He shares than many of the great leaders he’s known are avid, supportive listeners.  It’s important to allow the other person to be heard. Many of my best CEO clients are introverts. I believe this is why they are so much better at building great teams around them. You go a lot further for a person who has heard you than you do for one that has directed you.

Learning how to bring out the best in others in conversation makes you a brilliant conversationalist. Give the people you listen to the opportunity be heard completely before saying anything.

The third point Richard Branson makes is be careful not to interrupt another to say something you feel is brilliant.  How many times have you been talking to someone and you can almost see them explode after you say something. They are so busy thinking of something marvelous to say, they miss your key point.  When dealing with all kinds of people it’s is best to listen first, then pause before jumping in.

Always remember that people process information at different speeds and in different ways. When listening to people who speak several languages its best to allow them the space around what they say. When touching on emotional topics or memories it is critical that you honor their emotions. There is nothing worse than having a person listening to you shrug off a highly personal comment because they didn’t understand the context of the moment.

Here are several of my tips on how to bring out the best in anyone you’re listening to. Take time to prepare your questions that you need answered. When you ask them, be willing to wait for a great answer. Learn how to support people without saying a word.

Learn how to become the leader who is capable of deeper listening. If you want to get an extraordinary answer, prepare a great question that gets the person off to great start. Richard Branson at an early age developed the ability to ask penetrating questions. People enjoyed talking with him.

Richard’s great listening skills made him a fascinating conversationalist. He was able to leverage this critical capability to build many extraordinary organizations. This skill shows the other person respect, but that you thought about what you said before saying it. They feel heard!

Finally, be willing to go out of your own comfort zone to help the other person while listening. I’m not a very touchy person by nature. It’s a joke among family members that I don’t like to be touched by other people. When I interview people or help them during a challenging time I will touch and be touched by others. It allows me to connect with them where they are.  

When people are under extreme stress, a good listener allows their whole body to do the listening, as well.  Ever watch a great interviewer talk with someone? They move closer and make the other person seem like the only other person in the room.If you do these small things, you will not only be thought of as a great listener, but a brilliant conversationalist.

Want to learn more about Richard Branson? You might enjoy Can Entrepreneurs Learn How to Use Stories Like Richard Branson?

See you next week.

Original article appeared on Developing Serving Leaders 


About the Author

Tripp Braden partners with clients to create an anticipatory strategy and mindset. The resulting culture breaks down barriers to combine planning and innovation in a way that elevates and accelerates results.

He’s a growth strategist and IBM IoT Futurist who turns strategy into implementable options for increasing market share, revenue, and profits. He has proven success seeing the big picture and creating new market opportunities.

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